Hey Darling Ones, Today is the 24th Anniversary of I Will Dare(.com). The song is 40 years old. It was released in July 1994, according to Wikipedia. I’m sure I’ve remarked on the July coincidence before, but it feels like brand new information to me. I also learned that the 24th anniversary is the opal anniversary. Feel free to send me this tiny opal kitten (or one of each color). Usually I love to revel in I Will Dare’s anniversary…
Appreciation 7.24
Hiya Darling Ones, Here’s a short list of some of things bringing me happiness this past month. Neapolitan Ice Cream Sandwiches Specifically, the Target ones. I’ve never been a Neapolitan person. Vanilla is pointless as far as I’m concerned and why have two mediocre flavors when you can have all chocolate? But, after watching all the various Baking Championships (spring, summer, kids, etc.) on the Food Network Neapolitan sounded good. I nought a box of ’em when Sister #2 was…
Being a Childless Cat Lady Rules
Hello Darling Ones, On behalf of Childless Cat Ladies, I’d like to say, you could do a lot worse. The US, any company, the universe, your life, your household should be so lucky as to be run by a childless cat lady. Childless cat ladies are great and they come in all different kinds. Some are partnered up, some are single, some are trans, some are queer, some are cat ladies of color, some are international pop superstars. . ….
Would You Rather
Hi Darling Ones, Over the weekend I finished reading Astor: The Rise and Fall of an American Fortune by Anderson Cooper and Katherine Howe. It was a total snooze. I do not recommend. I stuck with it because one of my favorite genres is “when bad things happen to rich people.” Give me a murder mystery set in some English hoity-toity boarding school and I’m happy. The best thing about “Astor” is it kept reminding me of an argument we…
Unburdening Myself
Hello Darling Ones, Last night I finished Unshrinking: How to Face Fatphobia by philosopher Kate Manne. It’s one of those books that should be required reading for all humans. I’d also include Black AF History: The Un-Whitewashed Story of America by Michael Harriot and probably, Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood by Marjane Satrapi. I enjoyed Manne’s book a lot, even if I didn’t learn a ton. Having lived in a fat body my entire life I’m familiar with the…
Crying to Barbecue is My New Pastime.
Hi Darling Ones, I dunno about you, but I’ve had it up to here with current events. And I’m 6’5″ and here is pretty high up. I can’t with SCotUS. I can’t with shootings. I can’t with a fascist gameshow host stoking violence and then being shocked when there is violence. I can’t with a country that does nothing about violence and genocide in Palestine. I can’t with the death of one of the Heathers, and I really really cannot…