if you can still find five good things in the day it can’t be all bad, right?
1. the book editing, is complete until the final read through this weekend.
2. a lunch date with the evil munchkin for monday.
3. grammu is more coherent, however there is still no news
4. i’ve discovered a new fetish, 40something men, i will have to flesh this theory out in more detail later
5. e-mails from a womanfriend full of good advice that i can take
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As spoksman for the Anti_Objectivication Of Human Beings (AOOHB-pronounced ah-OO-hB), I assume you mean that you beilieve that your interest in 40 something men is “An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.” and thus _abnormal_, because it is the only non-objectifing definition.
Rest assured, so long as your able to function in society, it is within normal bounds….
From Dictionary.com:
Fet?ish also fet?ich P Pronunciation Key (ftsh, ftsh)
n.
1.An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
2.An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
3.Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
4.An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
1. A material object supposed among certain African tribes to represent in such a way, or to be so connected with, a supernatural being, that the possession of it gives to the possessor power to control that being.
2. Any object to which one is excessively devoted.
n 1: an object superstitiously believed to embody magical powers [syn: juju, voodoo, hoodoo, fetich] 2: excessive or irrational devotion to some activity; “made a fetish of cleanliness” [syn: fetich]
Hey I also try to find 5 Good Things every day 🙂 Here’s hoping your grandma recovers 🙂
-AMY
It is so hard to go through what you are now, but when both my parents died after really icky diseases, cancer and emphysema, they were actually ready to stop suffering and it seemed like a release for them. You’ve been working so hard, you really needed to shore up some reserves before you face it all, so don’t feel guilty about catching up on some sleep. Plus things like this really help us to focus on what’s important like families, rather than deadlines, where someone else can handle that, even though maybe not as well as you. But the world won’t end if the deadlines aren’t met.
Fetishes for 40ish guys are fine, it means you’re thinking about settling down and looking for security for yourself and any little ones that may arrive. By that time, they’re a little more responsible and usually not just in it for a roll in the hay, since the testosterone levels are decreasing from the adolescent years.
It’s probably good that the TTHM is going to see the object of his intentions, maybe he will see how much is fantasy and illusion in his mind, and how much is reality. After he has had a chance to evaluate, he may be willing to go for reality, rather it be her or you, so let it roll, and concentrate on Grammu after giving yourself a chance to catch up on some sleep. take care.