sister #2 just called, she found a hard, pea-sized lump in her breast yesterday. she’s going to the doctor tomorrow.
i am freaked out and feel like i’m gonna vomit.i keep telling myself it will be fine, just like when sister #4 had her breast problems.
if anything happens to her, i will lose it.
she seems pretty OK, upbeat, positive. i laughed with her about how sister #4 wants to freak out, but she won’t let her. i laughed about my mom’s nonchalance and inabilty to show affection. i teared up because at least aunt sherry was there to offer the hugs she’s so good at it.
i’m scared.
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my mom goes through this about 3-4 times a year and knock on wood, everytime it’s been a cyst. it always freaks me the fuck out, but I have to think positive and not be scared for my mom. just be there for your sister and reassure her that she’s going to be ok. I’ll send all my good vibes her way.
Oh, see, this is probably why the deja vu last evening, I was remembering sister #4.
prolly heard this all before but…most lumps are benign (9 out of ten). even if it is anything icky, being pea sized it would be stage 1 and WAYYYYY treatable. my sister had breast cancer so i know your fears..a larger lump (1 and a half inches across and a stage 1).3 years later and she’s healthy, happy and back to irritating the hell out of me…god love her
i also had a pea sized lump that i got checked out and turned out to be a fatty lump and absolutely nothing…
try not to worry too much
I discovered a hard pea-sized lump about two years ago. Got an ultrasound, even got a mammo. Turns out I have hotel pillow boobies. Could be the same for her.