Comments on: She’s the one getting divorced and I’m the one who is an emotional wreck https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/ A little bit of heaven & A whole lot of hell Mon, 14 Aug 2006 16:14:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 By: lani https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/#comment-13152 Mon, 14 Aug 2006 16:14:32 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5525#comment-13152 wow…i can’t even remember how i stumbled across your blog. i just got out of that situation (your sister’s) and i really advise that if she intends on getting custody in the future, they REALLY should be with her. we live in a society that deems non-custodial mothers (even if by choice) as pariahs. trust me, i know.

anyway…great blog!

]]> By: dweebie https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/#comment-13151 Sat, 12 Aug 2006 13:41:51 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5525#comment-13151 All states put the best interest of the children as the measure of what is determined for custody. If the children are residing in the family home with the father and the mother has left, when it comes time for temporary orders, in order to keep the kids in as stable an environment as possible, they keep them where they are in the situation they are in. I strongly suggest if she thinks she should move out of the house without the kids that she talk to a Minnesota lawyer first, don’t rely on well intentioned friends’ advice.

]]> By: Jo Harding https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/#comment-13150 Sat, 12 Aug 2006 13:03:18 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5525#comment-13150 She must be very frightened and depressed. The first thing she needs is to get her med situation resolved. Her doc should be notified first thing. My prayers are with her.

]]> By: kelly https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/#comment-13149 Fri, 11 Aug 2006 22:27:47 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5525#comment-13149 I think before she slugs off to the room there should be some massive consumption of ice cream and at least two hours of Sex and the City….or whatever Marrieds watch when they’re depressed.

]]> By: jodi https://iwilldare.com/2006/08/shes-the-one-getting-divorced-and-im-the-one-who-is-an-emotional-wreck/#comment-13148 Fri, 11 Aug 2006 21:48:12 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5525#comment-13148 Thanks. It’s breaking my heart and I try not to think about it all too much or it makes me cry. And I’m kind of tired of crying about a situation that is not mine.

She e-mailed me this afternoon and apologized for imposing and promised to spend the entire night in the room so she wouldn’t bother me.

that made me cry too.

it just all sucks.

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