Comments on: holding these two diametrically opposed viewpoints at once has made my skin too small for my thoughts https://iwilldare.com/2006/03/holding-these-two-diametrically-opposed-viewpoints-at-once-has-made-my-skin-too-small-for-my-thoughts/ A little bit of heaven & A whole lot of hell Sat, 24 Nov 2007 17:15:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 By: Lori https://iwilldare.com/2006/03/holding-these-two-diametrically-opposed-viewpoints-at-once-has-made-my-skin-too-small-for-my-thoughts/#comment-12292 Thu, 02 Mar 2006 03:31:18 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5232#comment-12292 Cut yourself some slack on this one. Your living arrangements are complicated enough … without her meltdown. Give her the support you can and tune her out when you can’t give any more. Your anger and / or resentment doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you HUMAN!

]]> By: Lerren https://iwilldare.com/2006/03/holding-these-two-diametrically-opposed-viewpoints-at-once-has-made-my-skin-too-small-for-my-thoughts/#comment-12291 Thu, 02 Mar 2006 02:12:21 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=5232#comment-12291 One of the thing DECADES of therapy finally taught me is: sometimes, walking away is the best thing for both people, and it takes a really really smart, sensitive person to realize that. And it’s really, really hard to do without feeling like a terrible person, but really strong, cool people, can do it. Not a bad person. a bad person would be blowing up, telling her off, and then going out and slashing her tires.

or something.

*whistles innocently*

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