Comments on: a list before lunch https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/ A little bit of heaven & A whole lot of hell Sat, 07 Feb 2004 04:33:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 By: jodi https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/#comment-8921 Sat, 07 Feb 2004 04:33:40 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=3856#comment-8921 you wish!

]]> By: UH https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/#comment-8920 Sat, 07 Feb 2004 04:32:40 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=3856#comment-8920 w00t! Girl Fight!

]]> By: thatwoman https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/#comment-8919 Sat, 07 Feb 2004 02:14:43 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=3856#comment-8919 As THAT WOMAN, I have to interject and say that I have been Jodi’s friend and a huge supporter of her work and writing for well over a year. About 3 months ago Jodi started getting very bitchy and short with me, cutting me out of projects and generally treating me very badly. Finally she does not speak to me at all. I have no idea what this is about. I’ve tried to approach her, but she won’t talk to me. Leaving work one day, I asked Jess if she knew what was up.

Jodi, you are not responsible for MY happiness and security, but you are responsible for YOUR actions. I think you have something going around your head about me — I’d like to know what it is, because your behavior doesn’t make any sense now. I can’t think of anything that happened between us that caused this tension. I think the not-talking has made things worse. Please, let’s have lunch and get this straightened out.

PS — If that’s your version of pleasant, rude probably involves weapons.

]]> By: jodi https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/#comment-8918 Fri, 06 Feb 2004 16:54:21 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=3856#comment-8918 i am pleasant to her, i’m never rude. i just choose not to go out to lunch with her which is what makes me a bad, bad, bad person. i do know her, i’ve worked with her for the past 3 years, it’s BRUTAL.

]]> By: Dana https://iwilldare.com/2004/02/a-list-before-lunch/#comment-8917 Fri, 06 Feb 2004 16:51:16 +0000 https://iwilldare.com/?p=3856#comment-8917 How are you supposed to set aside feelings and impressions gained through observation and experience? It makes no sense.

Now. As an adult, you CAN put a polite and tolerant face on your dealings with her, and be cooly cordial to her, even pleasant. There’s the small posibility she’ll turn out to be at least interesting once you get to know something else about her.

I found out I was wrong about someone not terribly long ago. Of course it was a snap judgement and not one I got from observation. I’m glad he proved me wrong.

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