Comments on: the message is very plain, i hate your answering machine

By: Bonny

Bonny — Fri, 01 Aug 2003 12:59:46 +0000

Do you watch Everybody Loves Raymond?? I’m pretty sure that most guys are a lot like Ray, though perhaps most polite. They don’t like sad sacks; they don’t want to “win” a woman other man have rejected. They don’t _really_ want to hear about the Outlaw; they really want you to say “who?” & never bring it up again. Angst is not attractive to most guys. They don’t find insecurity charming, it annoys them. That’s just how they are! Too bad you didn’t have any brothers, you would know. I’m not rubbing it in your face. Listen to your elder!

By: jodi

jodi — Fri, 01 Aug 2003 00:54:57 +0000

yeah, i know. i am learning that the hard way. thanks for stating the obvious and rubbing my nose in it. it’s much appreciated.

By: Bonny

Bonny — Thu, 31 Jul 2003 22:39:18 +0000

This, what you’re doing here, is WHAT MEN HATE! This is exactly why men lose interest. Trust me. If there’s “always something”, you’re no fun to be around. If you’re no fun, say “buh-bye” to just about any man just getting to know you.

By: jodi

jodi — Thu, 31 Jul 2003 16:21:27 +0000

i know that it’s totally irrational, but i can’t help it. blech. i haven’t even told him the whole story of the outlaw, it was too much. i should tell him and maybe he’d understand. i’m just not sure if i can yet.

By: heather

heather — Thu, 31 Jul 2003 16:08:23 +0000

oh yes, you are my twin. *hug*