Comments on: so dry your tears i say

By: Thomas

Thomas — Tue, 17 Jun 2003 10:46:29 +0000

You blame yourself because you’re THAT close to the situation. From an objective viewpoint, we can see he did you wrong.

It’s like being in a car accident; You mull it over and over how you could have avoided it, somehow thinking your own driving skills were negligent even thought you were driving perfectly.

Could you have avoided being hurt? Maybe. Perhaps you could have taken everything he said as a lie from the beginning and made him prove his real feelings at every turn, but then that wouldn’t be a real relationship either. That wouldn’t have been YOU.

Time will pass, new love will ease the hurt, and you’ll be happy. Mark my words; You deserve happiness and love.

By: jodi

jodi — Mon, 16 Jun 2003 18:52:16 +0000

how do you do that? how do you externalize stuff so well? to just make it all his fault and no fault and/or deficiency on my part? i just wish i could do that better. is it just low self-esteem? is that why i blame myself for it not working and not him?

By: Thomas

Thomas — Mon, 16 Jun 2003 18:34:57 +0000

She’ll break his heart AND have big fat orange haired baby girls with him. Then, as a single dad, he’ll have to console those girls when bastards like him break their hearts.

By: heather

heather — Mon, 16 Jun 2003 16:17:57 +0000

as i told you last night, jodi chromey, that’s what friends are for.

p.s. now i’m all teary-eyed! *sniff*

By: dainec

dainec — Mon, 16 Jun 2003 16:02:32 +0000

Thank you for turning to Heather, because what would we do without you?

I have to admit I know next to nothing about the man who broke your heart. I’m just thinking he can’t be the man you thought he was, given what he did.

Someone more worthy will appear in your life, I just know it.