Comments on: sisterly advice

By: Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 18 Jun 2003 19:25:46 +0000

Wow, everyone is very insightful and has such re-affirming things to say.

Me? I think he should stub his pinky toes, fall asleep on his arm, get a pubic hair caught in his underwear, and run out of gas while in the lead on the last lap…

By: Dick

Dick — Wed, 18 Jun 2003 16:45:12 +0000

Some have found that adhearance to certain positive principles (honesty,understanding,empathy,love,patcience,compassion,openmindedness,responsibility etc.)will lead to a set of values/beliefs that will not collapse when lifes burdens weighs us down. Living by positive means or negative means is choice, both have their consequences. Acceping others as they are does not imply that I have to support certain behaviors. Waiting for annother to come along who has values I can get behind may be a fruitless persuit. Waiting does not = patcience. All material things including lovers, children, comfort items etc may come and go. The way we choose to live and our beliefs cannot be taken from us. We can however abandon them. There is nothing I know of more valuable than the positive side of the human essence. The gifts.. freedom to be who we are, freedom from judgment,
freedom to make mistakes, to feel feelings good and bad. To enjoy and appreciate life in the moments it happens..now! I love your site because you dare to be open and let us in. I have faith that if you continue to work on your awareness and do the footwork you will allow more of what you need into your life. You already have so much. Great sense of humour too. As for the former unworthy suitor. He should be hunted down in the manor on would a rabid dog and put out of his misery. Please excuse the spelling.

Peace

By: dweebie

dweebie — Wed, 18 Jun 2003 14:23:57 +0000

I tend to agree with Bonny. Yes it hurts like hell to be betrayed, to not be chosen, but that’s life. We go through these dating/mating rituals to see whom we can live with and be happy, and it
takes a certain amount of experimentation. Some partners will not be chosen. Sometimes we’re the rejectees and sometimes we’re the rejectors. It helps guide us in the future by observing patterns in what kind of mate we want to avoid and also how much of our ideal love is only an illusion created in our own minds. If that’s the case, maybe we won’t repeat our mistakes and find a person who genuinely meets our expectations. We all know we aren’t perfect, yet we expect others to be. You can’t go into a long term relationship expecting the other person to be perfect all the time. We all have our own foibles and faults. Don’t hold anyone else to a higher standard than you would yourself. Maybe you’ve got the honesty part covered, but we all have some aspect of us that needs development. He sincerely may not have wanted to hurt you and didn’t know how to cut it off without doing so. Just remember sister friend, your a survivor, we as humans are extremely resiliant, use this experience as guidance in the future and let it go. {just my opinion ;-)} There’s enough evil in the world without vilifying someone you really cared about, try to remember what was good and then let it go.
sjer

By: Mel Gibson

Mel Gibson — Tue, 17 Jun 2003 21:54:25 +0000

I was not, in fact, Stephen King or Dr. Phil, Miss Jodi. I was Mel Gibson.

I am using your blog as an inspiration for my acting career. I think that’s pretty clear, since I’ve just signed to do “Lethal Weapon 5: When Hot Boobs Attack.”

It’ll be right after the Jesus movie. I’ll be wearing a Replacements shirt. Watch for it!

Best,

Mel Gibson

By: Thomas

Thomas — Tue, 17 Jun 2003 20:19:01 +0000

No, this guy wasn’t lying to himself. He’s just a lying snake who is going to try to hurt the ex-stripper too. Justice would be him waking up in a bathtub full of ice, a missing kidney, an empty wallet, “welcome to the world of herpes” written on the mirror with “call 911 or you will die” just below it. And the paramedics drop him. And he gets a papercut in the corner of his mouth, and they only have spicy chili to eat at the hospital. And he ends up with a cavity in his back molars. etc…