Comments on: it doesn’t jibe

By: Betsy

Betsy — Sat, 29 Mar 2003 13:39:15 +0000

Sometimes it’s not you, it’s them, they need time to go into their shell and heal wounds, then when they’re more able to give freely, they’ll remember the good times with you. So give them the gift of your patience.

By: Calli

Calli — Fri, 28 Mar 2003 05:51:57 +0000

I’m sorry you’re hurting so much. It’s so hard to try to mend a rift when the other person doesn’t feel like talking about it. I had someone just completely stop talking and e-mailing too and it hurt like hell. Oddly enough, he showed up a year and a half later, asking forgiveness. People just don’t know how much they’re hurting you sometimes.

Be patient, maybe he’ll come around. Whatever’s going on, don’t blame yourself for too much of it. If he doesn’t think you’re worth the effort, than he’s the one who’s missing out.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 28 Mar 2003 03:05:49 +0000

It’s a balancing act. I have to make sure I remember to save some energy for home and myself while going through the day. It’s hard, and I had to resort to leave myself notes at work. I think things are OK now, but they could be better. They can always get better.