Comments on: fill it up with love before i fall inside it

By: Calli

Calli — Wed, 19 Jun 2002 06:09:59 +0000

I not only understand, I -know- your fear. We share it. It’s mine too.

And, yes, you’re a marvelous creature. 🙂

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 18 Jun 2002 14:12:07 +0000

A lot of people have unreasonable fears. I was always terrified I would never be able to have children. I was convinced, from the time I was 6 or 7 years old, that I was barren. When my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, all the fears were compounded. I was then terrified that I would get pregnant, and miscarriage again, or deliver a stillborn. My fears were so great that I didn’t even want to have sex for fear that I would get pregnant. However, 3 beautiful children later, those fears are gone.

Hang in there.

By: Thomas

Thomas — Tue, 18 Jun 2002 11:14:33 +0000

Love is one of those words I don’t use lightly for that exact reason. If no man (outside the family) has ever told you that he loves you, then be glad that no one has used it to toy with you. In the wrong hands, those 3 little words could be very dangerous indeed.

I personally dig you and your literary acumen, but I wouldn’t be unfair to you and say that it’s love. If I didn’t already have a wife, I could fall in love with you, and I hope you understand that importance; Although you may feel to contrary due to a severe lack of intelligent men in your area, you are lovable.

Jodi, I understand how your past experiences would make you feel that way. You’re not crazy, you have a justified right to feel that way. But remember, we come here all the time to read, post, and to enjoy what you share, and you have a lot to share. You are lovable, very much so.

And yes, the men in Minnesota are idiots.

By: A boy

A boy — Tue, 18 Jun 2002 05:38:59 +0000

Bah, you haven’t been loved?! Get over it, you have too been loved.